Hey mama, let’s get real for a second. As a former Chief Customer Officer and a mom of two little ones, I get it—being a working mom can feel like you’re juggling a million things at once. The pressure to do it all is heavy, and it’s easy to feel like if you’re not giving 100% to every single thing, you’re falling short.
But here’s the truth: you don’t have to do everything to succeed.
Yep, I said it! And I’m about to show you how to start working smarter, not harder, with a mindset shift that will change the game. Ready to learn the secret? It’s all about your Not-For-Me To-Do List.
What is the “Not-For-Me To-Do List”?
It’s exactly what it sounds like: a list of things you’re not going to do anymore. It’s about getting crystal clear on what doesn’t need your time and energy so you can focus on what truly matters.
As a working mom, you already have a lot on your plate. And I’m not just talking about keeping your kids fed and dressed (though, let’s be real, that’s a full-time job in itself). You also have your work responsibilities, personal goals, family obligations, and everything else that life throws your way.
What if I told you that you don’t have to tackle it all? What if I told you that you can still succeed without burning yourself out? That’s exactly what the Not-For-Me To-Do List can help you do.
Work-life balance is a myth-think flow, not perfection.
How to Build Your Own Not-For-Me To-Do List
If you’re wondering how to actually put this into practice, don’t worry—I’ve got you covered. Follow these steps to start eliminating the unnecessary tasks from your life:
- Assess Your Current To-Do List
Take a look at your current tasks and responsibilities. What’s on your plate that feels heavy or draining? What are you doing just because you think you should? Write these down. - Ask Yourself the Tough Questions
Now that you have your list, it’s time to ask some key questions:- Does this task align with my goals, values, or priorities?
- Does it bring me joy or fulfillment?
- Is this something that only I can do, or can I delegate it to someone else?
If the answer is no, that’s a signal that it might belong on the Not-For-Me To-Do List.
- Delegate, Automate, or Let It Go
For the things that don’t need your time or attention, think about how you can delegate them. Could someone else handle it? Can you automate the task or remove it altogether? If it’s something that truly doesn’t serve you, it’s time to let it go. - Practice Saying No
This one can be tough, but it’s so important. Saying no to things that don’t align with your priorities is an act of self-care. It’s not selfish; it’s necessary for your well-being and success.
The Power of Doing Less to Achieve More
By creating your Not-For-Me To-Do List, you free up mental and physical space to focus on what truly matters. You get to prioritize your health, your relationships, and your career—all while maintaining your sanity and enjoying your life as a working mom.
Remember: you don’t need to do everything to succeed. You just need to focus on the things that really move the needle for you.
If you’re ready to take this mindset shift to the next level, I’ve got you covered! The Not-For-Me To-Do List is featured in my book The Savvy Working Mom, and I also offer a free downloadable version to help you implement this powerful tool into your life.
Ready to clear your plate and do less—but achieve more? Grab the tool today, and let’s get started!
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